The Journey Continues

I know many of you have been wanting to see pictures so I have added a bunch here.  The captions should explain.  As of last night, he is 2 pounds and 8 ounces and almost 16 inches long.  He is doing well.  They are investigating a possible infection, but everything has come back negative so far.  Other than that, he is holding his own.  I am trying to kangaroo with him every chance I get.  It is good for both of us.

This was when he was still intibated (sp?)  He did not have to have the tube long which is a good sign.

This was the first time we got a good look at his back.

Gus met Baby Marlin on June 27 at the Redlands Hospital.  He did a great job at being gentle.  He didn’t seem afraid.  He doesn’t know that not all babies come into the world this way.  We are super proud of the way he is handling everything.  He has been angel.

I love how Gus' nose is pressed against the glass.  It reminds me of an old Elton John song called "The Greatest Gift"  This song has a whole new meaning to me these days.  Listen to the song if you get a chance.

Gus was great at listening and being very careful

When he comes to visit, we have a tendency to spoil him a little.  As you can see in these pictures, we gave him a whole jar of Nutella.  We would never do this normally, but sometimes you just have to break the rules.  Gus still likes to be silly as ever.  In the last picture, he is posing with my RMH ID badge before bath time.

This was Gus being silly at the Ronald McDonald House (RMH).  He wanted a badge like we have so I let him wear mine.

The first time I was allowed to change his diaper, I amazed at how little his butt is.  It is all wrinkly and looks like an old man’s.  It is funny how when you go through something like this that you get excited to change your son’s diaper.  It doesn’t take much!

 The diapers are small, but not really small enough for him

On July 5^th, I finally got to hold my baby for the first time.  It was magical!  They really believe in Kangaroo care here.  That is when they lay the baby skin to skin on your chest.  Mom or Dad can do it.  When I finally got to do it, it was great!

On Gus’ 3^rd visit to RMH, he got to see his brother for the 3^rd time.  The second time we didn’t take any pictures.  They do it a little differently here. A “Child Life” specialist talks to the siblings and teaches them about all the tubes and what to expect when he sees his brother.  Then she accompanied us to see Marlin.  It was a little weird, but Gus did great.

Our first family photo

Marlin's hand on top of Gus'.  Marlins two middle fingers are curled under in this picture but you can kind of see how long his fingers are.  Good for playing the piano!

Gus liked having marlin hold his hand.  It made him feel like a big brother.  He also loved telling him all about trucks and tractors.  These are important things to know when you are in the NICU in Gus' eyes.

These  are just a few silly pictures of Gus at the RMH.  The one of him by the tractor is in an outfit I bought in Hawaii this Spring.  Thought Jen, Jenny and Colleen would like to see it.  Daddy has yet to wear the matching shirt I bought him.

Hawaii outfit

Mommy wearing marlin's eye covers

Gus wearing Marlin's eye covers

Finally, Daddy got in on the kangaroo action.  This was the first time Thor held Marlin.  Marlin was a little surprised by the hair on his chest, but he snuggled right in.